tools/xenstore: don't buffer multiple identical watch events

tools/xenstore: don't buffer multiple identical watch events

A guest not reading its Xenstore response buffer fast enough might
pile up lots of Xenstore watch events buffered. Reduce the generated
load by dropping new events which already have an identical copy
pending.

The special events "@..." are excluded from that handling as there are
known use cases where the handler is relying on each event to be sent
individually.

This is part of XSA-326.

Signed-off-by: Juergen Gross <jgross@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: Julien Grall <jgrall@amazon.com>
(cherry picked from commit b5c0bdb96d33e18c324c13d8e33c08732d77eaa2)